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The simplest way to connect data sgp Bose headphones to an iPhone is to put them in pairing mode, then use your phone to go to Settings > Bluetooth and tap on the Bose headphones. You can also use Bose Connect or Bose Music, which gives you access to much more features and settings.
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How to put your Bose headphones in pairing mode
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